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How to Tell Your Partner
You Love Them
Remember the words from an old song...
"Be sure it's true when you say I love you, it's a sin to tell a lie".
The concept of "sin" has lost its meaning for many in our modern era,
and even "love" has lost a significant portion of its importance.
If you still believe in "falling in love" then you will realize how
difficult it is to say, "I love you" in a meaningful way. Three little
words that can change your life forever. The words, themselves, have
lost their meaning because of overuse, especially when it's not really
true. Everybody says them, for many different reasons, even if they
don't mean them.
However, when you really want tell your partner of your love it's such
a hard decision to make for many reasons. Will your partner return your
love? Will your partner simply accept your declaration with
indifference? Will he or she feel threatened? It is such a common
problem that even "The Seinfeld Show" had an episode on it.
So make it easy on yourself and plan the declaration so that as much as
possible you eliminate the problems. The first step, of course, is to
be certain you really are in love. If you so enjoy being with your
partner that you want to be with him or her to the exclusion of all
others, if you think of him or her every day when you are apart, you
are probably in love. If you have even a small doubt you should wait a
little longer.
If you are certain then plan a special occasion for it. Make it a
significant moment in your life - one to remember with fondness for
your whole life. Arrange an intimate dinner at your favorite restaurant
and make it as romantic as you can. Give him or her a small gift
because you love being with them, or you are so glad that you met them.
After dinner while holding your partner intimately gaze intently into
their eyes and say, "I love you so much it hurts when we are apart. I
hope that we can stay together forever".
Do not be disappointed if your partner does not return your
declaration. They may not yet be ready and might need more time to
state their feelings. Continue to share with your partner the highs and
lows of your partner's life. Care for your partner's happiness and be
on guard to protect his happiness.
Under no circumstances should you ever ask your partner, "Do you love
me"?
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Are you so in love you could die right now and be truly happy? Do you
have someone you want to share your feelings with? Find a Love Poem that
expresses how you feel at http://www.sweet-love-poems.com
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